With so many different forms of communication, it can be hard to know how to ask the girl out. What’s more is that there is a lot of fear of rejection and vulnerability surrounding asking a girl on a date, so let’s discuss some tips and tricks on how to ask her out to reduce some of the pressure you might be feeling.
With communication being the way it is, you can easily take the pressure off asking her out by simply sending a text or DM. This is usually the ideal way to ask her out especially if you’re already friends or acquaintances and are just looking for the right moment to slide in there with your ask. Besides being low stakes for you, it also takes the pressure off the girl, as she has some time to think about it and let you down gently if needs be, rather than being caught off guard.
Don’t write a whole long message about how you think she’s the one, but rather keep it short, simple and to the point. Make sure to put in a call to action, with a time and place, and ensure you end off with “let me know”, so that it’s not too open-ended leaving you without a response.
Go All Out
If it’s a girl you’ve been casually seeing or messaging for a while, why not go all out on the big ask. Chances are she’s going to be all in any way, so you might as well go big or go home. You can have a laugh about how cheesy it is, or just enjoy the night as friends if she turns you down.
That being said, you’ll want to make sure that you catch her at a good time if it’s in person. Does she seem upset or distracted? Is she in a pleasant mood? If someone is stressed out maybe she won’t be in the best headspace to accept your request. Don’t just think about your excitement for the date, but consider the person that you’re asking too.
Is She Single?
Last, and most importantly, don’t be that guy. Before you ask her out, make sure that she is single. If she’s single, perfect, go right ahead and ask for her number or date night. If she says that she’s not single, brush it off and go on with your day! Don’t push her to fall for you when she’s fallen for someone else. In this case, it’s true what they say – there are plenty more fish in the sea!
So, there you have it. Three quick and easy ways to ask the girl out. Just remember that these are only suggestions, and really, the possibilities are endless. Just make sure not to get too caught up on one girl that you can’t see the forest for the trees. Try once more, but then call
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